RealTalk-LDS

2 Date Rule

Here’s the thing. You should have a two date minimum with the person(s) you ask out unless the first date was absolutely repulsive.

Take the time to get to know her more by asking her on a second date. You’ll get to know them more and likely see a different side of them you didn’t see on date number one.

That’s the name of the game. Get on a date and then get to know her. It takes at least two dates to make that happen.

Again, the first three dates are purely for fun with no expectations.

One limiting belief men usually have here is they believe that they’ll lead a woman on or that other people will think they’re serious if they go on three dates.

That is such a stupid idea and simply false. 😠😠😠

Is it possible that you lead a woman on by asking her on three dates? Sure, but that’s not your fault. It’s definitely on her if she considers three dates as “serious” because the norm is that it’s strictly casual.

Don’t let that belief keep you from moving forward.

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