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The Hard DTR

At this point you’ve successfully ask her out, had about three dates in which you both agreed to move forward at the soft DTR, and you might have had some hand holding or a kiss or two (physical intimacy not required before an exclusive relationship).

That’s it my friend.

You’ve made it to the point of making things official and this is the easy part.

Making it this far means you’re both into each other and want to enter an exclusive relationship.

It doesn’t take much to get from where you are at this point to an exclusive relationship.

A simple, “I think we should make this exclusive” or “Will you be my girlfriend?” or “Are you ready to make this exclusive” is all it takes.

Some additional words of advice…

Don’t make it Facebook official (if you even have a Facebook) since that’s reserved for pre-engagement status.

Keep going on more dates! At this point you’re likely hanging out a lot so be sure to don’t let hanging out replace real dates. Keep things alive by planning fun dates. At this point you can and should let her choose the location and activity now and again.

Keep getting to know her and keep being a stellar guy.

You got this my friend.

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